Turning 41

In a couple of weeks I am turning 41… OMG is the first thought crossing my mind, at the same time what’s that number…

And I’d I be honest, I expected a couple of things when I was in my twenties when I would reach the 41.

• Being a mother

That’s something that isn’t happened… So how do I comprehend…

Well sometimes I do and sometimes I really don’t! I have a wonderful life don’t get me wrong. I Have a wonderful hubby, friends and family, but society still expects it too. I know I don’t have to think about that. I mean it’s my life! And still you get questions. And I don’t mind… I mean I’m all for questions but the box people put you in, that’s hard. And do I let people… I mean NLP taught me to manage my state. So I choose how I feel or think! And still I’m human too.

It’s getting older that I’m afraid off. I mean being together with René is great and we do lots of fun things and thinking of when we’re older… We’re the two of us and it’s a double feeling too… Being a mother will still be welcome and still respect the nature. And doing a well formed outcome (NLP process) for being a mom feels weird to do… I could do it and will think about it… Still feels weird…

But what bothers me from society: I think it’s about assumptions that bothers me the most. I mean it’s not by choice we’re not parents (yet). And the only thing I can do is answer questions if people ask…

So if you have questions always ask me, I’ll be honest and tell you if I don’t want to answer.

Thanks for reading.

Liefs, Miranda